Types / Personality facets / Keeping peace

A facet inside Agreeableness

Keeping peace

How much you avoid fights, insults, retaliation and escalating disagreements.

What this facet measures

A football rests on a doorstep beside a straightened flowerbed and re-staked fence, with the closed gate beyond.

How quickly you move toward fights, insults, retaliation, or heated confrontation. The lower end is more ready to confront, argue, or respond when someone crosses you.

The two ends

This is one scale with two ends, not two camps. Most people land somewhere between them, and neither end is better. The labels describe different ways of answering the statements.

Confronts quickly

People toward this end address friction as soon as it appears, with little interest in letting it pass. They may raise a complaint immediately, argue their position, or answer a sharp remark before the moment has cooled.

Keeps the peace

People toward this end look for ways to lower the temperature of a tense exchange. They may choose a softer opening, pause before replying, or give someone room to step back. This can preserve cooperation, but it can also leave important grievances unspoken until patience runs out.

See where all 30 land

Answer 120 short statements for a reading across all 30 facets, with each scale explained in plain English.

Questions

Is a low score a bad score?

No. Each end comes with something that helps and something that gets in the way. Some scale names sound like faults in everyday English, but an end label describes what the statements asked about, not a grade.

What if this part disagrees with its trait?

It happens often, and it’s the reason these 30 facets exist. A broad score is an average of six parts, so one part can point the other way. Nothing is wrong when a facet and its broad trait don’t match perfectly.

Who is this score compared with?

A score is compared with 320,128 U.S. adults who answered the original statements online during the roughly 12 years before 2014. Their published average and spread provide a typical range for the facet, showing how the score compares with that group.